One of the key lighten up initiatives is something that I'm calling "conscious consumerism". Believe me, I know that sounds like an oxymoron around here. And it may be that the term will be too conflicted to work with, even after I explain. But, if it is, I'll just call it something else, then, I guess. (There is a great conversation between Alice and Humpty Dumpty about the definition of "glory" that is related to this but that is CLEARLY another story.) I'm open to suggestions.
In my world, conscious consumerism is almost the opposite of our American fascination with "disposable" things. In my head, it is all about the questions. When I'm making the shopping list, instead of just thinking about keeping the family provisioned and keeping within a rough budget, I have a whole new list of things to think about. Since the questions range from the "I just have to decide" type to the "I really have to research this to get an answer", I don't always have answers to every question before I shop. But, after several weeks of doing this, they are all part of my process now. So, here is one version of the list of questions that run through my head:
Do I really need this? Is this something that I need to buy new? Is there a version of this that will add less to my personal stack in the worldwide landfill - a more durable version that will last for a long time? Is there a local version of this - that didn't have to be shipped a jillion miles to get to me? Is there a version of this that was produced or provided in a manner that I find more agreeable - less petroleum, or with more appealing business practices, or is just a really elegant solution to a tricky problem, or from a shop that I feel personally connected to instead of a mega-impersonal-store?So, with that in mind, there are some things I've just changed - with no experiment, no data gathering, and no fiddling around. And here are a couple of them.
I had researched these online and found them at one of the local "natural food" stores - where I get most of my produce during the winter - about a month ago. They went on sale week before last, so I bought them then - ya'll know I like clean, green AND cheap! The online reviews recommended anywhere from 4-6 to manage the static in family sized loads. I noticed that our darks - by far the largest load in a house with D2 in it! - were a little static-y this week, but not enough for me to go buy 2 more. We'll continue using the dryer sheets for our delicate load (my work clothes, Colin's "business man" shirts and D2's "dry on low heat or they'll shrink" things) until they run out. I don't plan to buy any after that.
These, and a few other changes like them, are primarily reactions to my feelings on the rampant disposability that supposedly buys us more time and simplifies our lives. For a lot of reasons, that mindset weighs on me, so every time I make changes like this, I feel a bit lighter, even if it means that I have to question everything regularly!
There is a tricky bit to this. It is easy to get caught up in the conflict between "good" questions - durable wine glasses made from recycled glass but shipped from Spain or flimsier, not recycled, but local? - so I have to make decisions based on my current priorities. There are those that are farther along this path than I am - "you BOUGHT WINEGLASSES?!?!? and they were NEW?!?!?!?" - but I'm OK with my baby steps at this point. After all, the point is to lighten up, dude! - not to become even more intense!
4 comments:
now, do you get extra points for keeping the glass containers that contained locally produced products?
You get points for everything! Points and points and points! But our scale for points is not that hight, really. If you want to see crazy points, you should check out this site.
http://crunchychicken.blogspot.com/2008/01/
you-know-youre-hard-core.html
Hey Ang,
I'm late in catching up on the blog. But the Kicky outee thing can be resolved by mayonaise, small doses on the ends especially in place of conditioner. Just a thought
I"m not sure what this says about me, but my immediate response was, "Mayonnaise? Ewwww!" After all the shampoos I've tried, every crazy hair product, not to mention my current system, I'm a bit surprised to know that about myself, but there it is!
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